There's a new serial on TBS - it's called My Boys. It's about a girl and her friends - all guys! So it's got the usual load of girl-guy fun, tons of advice on relationships and the usual friendship vs love vs life thing. Yet, it's different. I guess a girl who has always felt comfortable being friends with guys would understand.
But come to think of it, I know a few girls who are more comfortable being friends with guys, than they are with other girls. I have heard this from my ex-girlfriend, my friends and other guys - it's easier to make friends with guys! And when more than 2 guys hang out together, jealousy is not an issue. Jealousy could become an issue - but only at a collective level. One guy in the group getting jealous of someone else coz of some third person getting close to that someone else - nah, that don't happen between guys. I think the primary reason that guys bond better on a collective level is coz of the lack of expectations and feelings. Guys understand that we don't poke into each other's emotions. There are times when you let a guy be by himself, as opposed to hugging him and trying to blackmail his thoughts out of him - while he is squirming around in his seat. You do that - and I bet that's the last you gonna see of him in the group. Every1 in the group has their own space. I think the American concept of personal space holds really well in this theory.
Anyway, if you got a group of buddies like that by your side, even hell can be a lot of fun!
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True.. friends make all the difference!
oh..i'm so one of those girls who has tons of more guy friends..i find them so much easier to be with..
I think it is just friends who make a difference. guy or a gal comes in next.
Maybe what you say is true.
Anyway, howz life otherwise? Enjoying work?
am totally with you Ramki...if you click with someone, that's all you need for a great friendship!
I am good man - enjoying being busy after a long gap! But that's about it... struggling to find the right niche for myself... but that's a fight for life :)
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I am sure you are very busy,but this is a good space.I hope you don't let it die.
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